I is for Inertia

…as in ‘disinclination to move or act’.

I was suffering from a bit of inertia yesterday. It usually affects me after a busy weekend. Suddenly the house is quiet again. Life returns to ‘normal’ and most are finding their way back to their daily routines.

You have probably heard the  advice  “Leave them wanting more”. Well, they definitely left ME wanting more!  I suppose that’s much better than outstaying a welcome, but still, there’s a real letdown when loved ones leave after a great visit!

My sister and her family  have been coming up for Easter almost every year for the past 20 years. And almost invariably, in earlier years, her  sons would cry each time they packed up to go home, because they were having too much fun with their cousins. Well, that’s how I’m feeling. I was tempted to hide my bro-in-law’s car keys in order to have more time with my sis. But I thought better of it. Probably not a good idea. I value good relationships with my rellies!

So, they drove away yesterday morning and I stood on the steps and watched as their silver Toyota Rav, towing a dirt- bike laden trailer, disappeared around the corner.

The house was quiet once again.

In my mind, I had a long list of things to do to get the house back in order. Stripping sheets off the guest beds, doing laundry, vacuuming, meal planning, preparing turkey soup stock,  work…  But my energy had dissipated somewhat and I was drawn to do very little. Like putting up my feet and reflecting on the past 72 hours or so. But I could only do that for so long! So I pushed myself to be (somewhat) productive, but gave myself a little grace to putter, too.

Looking on the bright side, this feeling of inertia only means that I had a fantastic weekend! So thankful for good times with family and friends!